Thursday, October 24, 2013
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
一针见血
i do not own this article.
Original post : http://www.douban.com/note/229842721/
如果与赢无关，那么胜利时候，那么多人喝彩，失败时候，那么默默无闻走开是喂神马？
有多少人真的承认自己是不在乎结果的，请举手，对，不要羞涩，大胆的举起手来。
很多个故事，说一个怎样平凡的人，历经多少失败，但是因为自己的执着与坚持，最后成功了。实际上大家被忽悠了。这个故事的重点不是执着与坚持，而是最后成功了。如果最后没有成功，那么没人会写这个故事。只是邻居路过的时候转头跟孩子说，别理这个怪叔叔，他妄想症从小时候就得了，一直没好，你不好好学习，长大也会这样。
刘翔摔了，有同情的，有讽刺的，有安慰的，有责怪的。很多人说刘翔贵在坚持，又有很多人拿出广告单，力图塑造一个体坛唐明皇形象：一开始时候还知道励精图治，小有成绩美人（？）在怀时候便失去了建功立业的魄力。实际上，po广告图片的和当年疯狂追捧刘翔的都是一批人。这批人，卑鄙的让人不知道说什么好。但是，话说回来，这就是人，只关注强者，只关注成功，其他的都是浮云。就算再装出一副“银牌也ok，或者参与者最光荣”的虚伪嘴脸，也掩饰不了骨子里最原始的关于胜利的憧憬。喜欢看竞技比赛，并不是真的热爱一项运动或者在享受运动的过程，看竞技比赛，只是为了赢的那一刹那，肾上腺素一瞬间的飙升。这就跟古罗马竞技场把战俘扔进狮子坑之中，看着狮子把活人生生撕成碎片一样。这是人类所喜欢的最原始的强大的感觉，压倒性的胜利所带来的无与伦比的美丽。
坚持或者执着，为的是啥？是享受坚持的过程嘛？十月怀胎，从窈窕淑女变身超级肥婆是为了享受孕育的喜悦嘛？一个人忍受寂寞，在实验室里，在办公室里，在会议室里，离开爱人的陪伴，离开亲人的照顾，只是为了享受自己一个人看文件、回邮件、研究报表、分析数据的过程嘛？开什么玩笑，我们又不是有病。
各种悲伤寂寞冷，只是为了有那么一刹那，我们能够享受胜利的喜悦。我们能够获有个健康的宝宝，获得诺贝尔，升职加薪，事业有成。对的，别给自己的坚持找一个伟大的理由，你我心知肚明，各种悲催是为了得志的欢喜。就算悲催了十年，而只有分分钟的快乐。
这个题目起得真的蛋疼，我好像要说一个励志的题目，结果却颠倒黑白。其实我说的一直是一个事情。不过更直接。人不能虚伪，不能一边崇拜强者，鼓吹胜利，一边还要安慰弱者，摆着姿态。太假太做作。崇拜强者本来就是天经地义的事情，没有人为了平庸而活着。那么就亮出自己卑鄙的本质，当别人问你你是不是喜欢胜利的时候，坚定地举手。虽然很卑鄙，也好过很伪善。
Original post : http://www.douban.com/note/229842721/
如果与赢无关，那么胜利时候，那么多人喝彩，失败时候，那么默默无闻走开是喂神马？
有多少人真的承认自己是不在乎结果的，请举手，对，不要羞涩，大胆的举起手来。
很多个故事，说一个怎样平凡的人，历经多少失败，但是因为自己的执着与坚持，最后成功了。实际上大家被忽悠了。这个故事的重点不是执着与坚持，而是最后成功了。如果最后没有成功，那么没人会写这个故事。只是邻居路过的时候转头跟孩子说，别理这个怪叔叔，他妄想症从小时候就得了，一直没好，你不好好学习，长大也会这样。
刘翔摔了，有同情的，有讽刺的，有安慰的，有责怪的。很多人说刘翔贵在坚持，又有很多人拿出广告单，力图塑造一个体坛唐明皇形象：一开始时候还知道励精图治，小有成绩美人（？）在怀时候便失去了建功立业的魄力。实际上，po广告图片的和当年疯狂追捧刘翔的都是一批人。这批人，卑鄙的让人不知道说什么好。但是，话说回来，这就是人，只关注强者，只关注成功，其他的都是浮云。就算再装出一副“银牌也ok，或者参与者最光荣”的虚伪嘴脸，也掩饰不了骨子里最原始的关于胜利的憧憬。喜欢看竞技比赛，并不是真的热爱一项运动或者在享受运动的过程，看竞技比赛，只是为了赢的那一刹那，肾上腺素一瞬间的飙升。这就跟古罗马竞技场把战俘扔进狮子坑之中，看着狮子把活人生生撕成碎片一样。这是人类所喜欢的最原始的强大的感觉，压倒性的胜利所带来的无与伦比的美丽。
坚持或者执着，为的是啥？是享受坚持的过程嘛？十月怀胎，从窈窕淑女变身超级肥婆是为了享受孕育的喜悦嘛？一个人忍受寂寞，在实验室里，在办公室里，在会议室里，离开爱人的陪伴，离开亲人的照顾，只是为了享受自己一个人看文件、回邮件、研究报表、分析数据的过程嘛？开什么玩笑，我们又不是有病。
各种悲伤寂寞冷，只是为了有那么一刹那，我们能够享受胜利的喜悦。我们能够获有个健康的宝宝，获得诺贝尔，升职加薪，事业有成。对的，别给自己的坚持找一个伟大的理由，你我心知肚明，各种悲催是为了得志的欢喜。就算悲催了十年，而只有分分钟的快乐。
这个题目起得真的蛋疼，我好像要说一个励志的题目，结果却颠倒黑白。其实我说的一直是一个事情。不过更直接。人不能虚伪，不能一边崇拜强者，鼓吹胜利，一边还要安慰弱者，摆着姿态。太假太做作。崇拜强者本来就是天经地义的事情，没有人为了平庸而活着。那么就亮出自己卑鄙的本质，当别人问你你是不是喜欢胜利的时候，坚定地举手。虽然很卑鄙，也好过很伪善。
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Saturday, August 17, 2013
weird me.
like suddenly i realised that we can never ever depend on others for our own happiness.
but it's too late.
*
so.... Hari Raya holiday ends.
idk what feelings should I have right now. okay to be honest. i don't actually feel blue for the reopening of school. i remembered last year i was so down when it came to schooling days. well most probably is because of pmr and those trials that made me exhaust . this year form 4. okay everything becomes tougher but we don't have to sit for any important government test. so except some small tests, coming to school is just like a piece of cake. without stress and i'm enjoying. homework? yah our teachers don't actually give us loads of homework, and if yes, i always do it last minute /./
*
mummy says i have to stop to be a perfectionist. nobody is perfect.
but seriously....am not interest for 'perfection'.
i am just... dream big. for you only lived once.
like, if you have a dream. then why not dream for the biggest and furthest?
but it's too late.
*
so.... Hari Raya holiday ends.
idk what feelings should I have right now. okay to be honest. i don't actually feel blue for the reopening of school. i remembered last year i was so down when it came to schooling days. well most probably is because of pmr and those trials that made me exhaust . this year form 4. okay everything becomes tougher but we don't have to sit for any important government test. so except some small tests, coming to school is just like a piece of cake. without stress and i'm enjoying. homework? yah our teachers don't actually give us loads of homework, and if yes, i always do it last minute /./
*
mummy says i have to stop to be a perfectionist. nobody is perfect.
but seriously....am not interest for 'perfection'.
i am just... dream big. for you only lived once.
like, if you have a dream. then why not dream for the biggest and furthest?
Saturday, August 10, 2013
If.
。
if one day my dreams come true.
i wish i would never forget who is there be with me even in the darkest days of my life.
i wish i would never forget people who help me and motivate me along the way of pursuing my dreams.
i wish i would never forget to thanks and praise the Lord, for everything i have is given by Him.
总不能 流血就喊痛 怕黑就开灯 想念就联系 疲惫就放空 被孤立就讨好 脆弱就想家 不要被现在而蒙蔽双眼 终究是要长大 最漆黑的那段路终要自己走完 现在的这些那些也将会被时间抛在脑后 所以 不要害怕。@weibo
if one day my dreams come true.
i wish i would never forget who is there be with me even in the darkest days of my life.
i wish i would never forget people who help me and motivate me along the way of pursuing my dreams.
i wish i would never forget to thanks and praise the Lord, for everything i have is given by Him.
总不能 流血就喊痛 怕黑就开灯 想念就联系 疲惫就放空 被孤立就讨好 脆弱就想家 不要被现在而蒙蔽双眼 终究是要长大 最漆黑的那段路终要自己走完 现在的这些那些也将会被时间抛在脑后 所以 不要害怕。@weibo
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
一不做二不休
came across this saying :
I'd rather have a life of 'OH WELLS' than a life of 'WHAT IFS.'
and it is pretty true. for me. i realised that i am that kind of person that if i decided to do something, then i will strain every nerve to perform best and if i don't want to do something, i won't get start. not even a little try. my mum said, i am so 'legalistic' (and this is definitely not a compliment) . but. but something stubborn in me wouldn't let me change. because.... we only live once. i just don't want to make myself feeling guilty. okay so a little sharing anyway, and happy hari raya aidilfitri to everyone! :)
I'd rather have a life of 'OH WELLS' than a life of 'WHAT IFS.'
and it is pretty true. for me. i realised that i am that kind of person that if i decided to do something, then i will strain every nerve to perform best and if i don't want to do something, i won't get start. not even a little try. my mum said, i am so 'legalistic' (and this is definitely not a compliment) . but. but something stubborn in me wouldn't let me change. because.... we only live once. i just don't want to make myself feeling guilty. okay so a little sharing anyway, and happy hari raya aidilfitri to everyone! :)
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